Mt. Olive Lutheran Church
2001 N. Alpine Rd.
Rockford, IL 61107
February 2007
   

Popular culture gives teens the idea that fame is more important than anything else.
  It is no surprise that we live in a culture that glorifies the rich and famous. We have become obsessed with breakups and breakdowns of the stars through magazines, Internet, television, and all the other venues. If you don't think this is an issue with teens, think about this question Jake Halpern asked to over 650 teens in his book called "Fame Junkies": "Given a choice of becoming the CEO of a major corporation, the president of Yale or Harvard, a Navy SEAL, a U.S. senator or "the personal assistant to a very famous singer or movie star," almost half of the girls — 43.4% — chose the assistant role" (jakehalpern.com).

You might think this is absurd, but for many teens this is reality. Teens want what they think fame brings, and that is the Three A's: affluence, attractiveness, and achievement. The picture painted by our culture shows that the more of the Three A's you have, the better your life will be. God reminds us in Luke 14 that we have our priorities all wrong. Jesus tells a story of someone being invited to a wedding feast. He reminds us not to take the place of honor because someone more distinguished could show up. Then, He says in Luke 14:11, "For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." Helping teens see the value of exalting Christ instead of themselves is where true success and fame can be found. As we lift Him up, our priorities shift to Him and to others. The most famous in God's eyes are the one's who love, serve, and give when no one else is looking.
Message from Mendy

At youth group recently we watched the movie "Facing the Giants" and we talked about what it means to trust God with every aspect of our lives. Giving Him control shows Him that we trust that He has the best in mind for each of us. The Lord says in Jeremiah 29:11 that He knows the plans He has for us and that they are good for us! I know that we all make wrong choices that often take us the opposite direction of God's plan, but we know that even in those times, He will work it out for good. Romans 8:28 says, All things work for the good of those who love Him who have been called according to His purpose. God will take care of us, even if we make the wrong choice He will work it out to fulfill His plan through us.
Take time today to spend time in prayer. Determine what area of your life you need to be trusting God with, and do your best to give it over to Him. You will be blessed!

ps. If you have not seen "Facing the Giants," I highly recommend it!
Usaweekend.com asked teens some very interesting questions about famous people. Here is what they found:

Which quality matters most to you in a celebrity? (Pick one)
36% Talent
32% Personality
17% Character
15% Looks


Do you agree with this statement: When celebrities make the following choices, a lot of teens want to do the same.
77% - Lose weight
62% - Pierce a body part
58% - Get a tattoo
48% - Drink alcohol
47% - Smoke cigarettes
39% - Take drugs


It's amazing how many teens (and adults) are mesmerized by the thought of being famous. See what your teen thinks about some of these questions.

1. Who is your favorite famous person? What do you like about them?

2. If you could be friends with any famous person, who would it be? Why would you want to be friends with them? Do you think they would be a good friend?

3. Why do you think we are so obsessed with famous people and their mistakes?

4. Do you think fame comes at a price? What are some of the advantages/disadvantages of fame? Would you be willing to pay that price to be famous?

5. Can you name any celebrities who are famous and live for Christ? Why aren't there that many?
Pray that:

1. Your teen will have the desire to store up treasures in heaven instead of trying to store up treasures here on earth.

2. God will continue to use your teen for His glory and for His fame.

3. Your teen will find their importance in Christ, instead of how the world tells them to find their worth.

4. God will help your teen pursue the things of God, to find satisfaction in Him and only Him.


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If you, as a parent, are interested in helping organize or run any of the above things, please let me know. Your help is always appreciated!


Did you know...

* When given an option to become stronger, smarter, famous, or better looking, boys in a survey chose fame almost as often as intelligence, and girls chose it more often. (usatoday.com)

* 31% of American teenagers believe they'll become famous one day. (psychologytoday.com)

* Students were asked to choose which famous person they would most like to have dinner with. The top three choices went to Paris Hilton and 50 Cent (both at 15.8%), who tied for third place. Second place went to Jesus Christ (16.8%) and the winner was Jennifer Lopez (17.4%). (jakehalpern.com)

* Teens who described themselves as often or always “depressed” were more likely than others to believe that becoming a celebrity would make them happier. Teenagers who described themselves as feeling “lonely” were also more likely to believe that fame would make a positive impact on their lives. (jakehalpern.com)



This page is designed to inform and educate parents and is not meant to endorse any product, music, or movie.
Our prayer is that you will make informed decisions on what your student listens to, wears, and sees!


This Grammy Award winning artist, tobyMac, was a part of the much successful dctalk. He began his solo career in 2001 with the Grammy nominated Momentum. His most recent album, "Diverse City", is "an album bursting with musical flavors and nuances and yet this stylistic blend finds unity through faith as it's threaded through a melding urban rock and hip-hop frame." Despite receiving numerous awards and much notoriety, tobyMac's mission remains the same. He states, "My new album invites people to ponder how they relate to each other and to God and how He relates to them." tobymac.com
trends

It's finally here parents...the iphone has arrived! For $499.00 (4 GB) or $599.00 (8 GB), you can have a revolutionary mobile phone, a wide screen iPod with touch controls, and a breakthrough Internet communications device, in one small and lightweight handheld device. Business Week is saying that Apple could sell over 5 million phones in 2007. For information about the iphone (your teen has probably already looked), go to www.apple.com/iphone.
musicspotlight


Albums:
"Future Sex/Love Sounds" - 9/2006

"Maximum Justin Timberlake" - 10/2003

"Justified" - 11/2002
Background: Justin Timberlake has played a major role in the teen pop explosion of the 90's and 2000's. He first got his start, like many other modern pop stars, on the 90's version of the Mickey Mouse Club. His career took off, however, with NSYNC in 1996. Timberlake went solo in 2002 with the release of "Justified". The album reached number 2 on Billboard 200 and landed him two Grammy Awards. His most recent album released in 2006. He has also been trying his hand at acting as seen in his recent big screen releases, Alpha Dog and Black Snake Moan. (vh1.com)

What parents should know: His most recent album contains a parental advisory. Though there is a "clean" version, the album is full of sexual content, suggestive and foul language.

Parent/Teen Q&A: Why do you think some artists who start out clean, change their image and their music to contain harsher or even dirty topics and language? Does it change your perception of them at all?
filmwatch

The month of February has a comic book hero and a popular television show competing for the number one spot. Take the time to be informed!
TITLERATINGRED FLAGSGENRESTARRING
Ghost RiderPG-13For horror, violence, and disturbing imagesAction/AdventureNicolas Cage, Wes Bentley, Eva Mendes
Black Snake MoanRFor sexual content, language, some violence, and drug useDramaSamuel L. Jackson, Christina Ricci, Justin Timberlake
Reno 911: MiamiRFor sexual conduct, nudity, crude humor, language, and drug useComedyRobert Ben Garant, Thomas Lennon
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